"Even if you are on the right track, You'll get run over if you just sit there!"
I attended a seminar given by Business Coach Justin Rohner (www.justinrohner.com) and he was talking about how when we see or hear something that someone else is doing and it resonates within us it's because that is something we need to be doing and already have the God given ability to do it, we just need to pursue it. The best way I can explain this is for me when I go to a concert and watch someone else sing on stage. It doesn't matter the size of the audience, or type of music, for that matter, I just feel this intense emotion, this surge of desire in my heart to be up there and towards the singer I get these intensley jealous emotions. The concert is such a thrill for me as I think I could be up there, doing that... and I think everyone in the audience MUST be feeling the same way, only to hear afterwards my husband was busy analizing the sound system and how it could have been improved?????
But I have discovered that as I am actively working on myself, my music, and my own career I am now genuinely happy for those that are succeeding in my chosen field! I realized those feelings of jealousy were because I wasn't doing anything about my own desires, passions, talents and truths! I find that it doesn't seem to matter exactly where I am on the track as long as I am continually moving forward on it. As I have reawakened my passions I have come alive. I am a better wife, mother, and friend. The days I am irritable are usually the ones where I haven't taken any initiative to work on my dream.
So I know you are all not aspiring artists in the music biz, but I do know that within you lies your calling and passion. Something that resonates and makes you feel a little sad and/or jealous when you see someone else moving toward YOUR, I mean their dream! It could be anything from having your own business to photography, to getting a degree! My challenge to you is do something about it, get on that track and move foward day by day. Even if it is only one step!